Escape Cheating on your Spouse (2): Learn Doing Home Chores Yourself!
Henry Mutebe is another person whose posts are nice on Facebook. He gave the first tip of how to escape the temptation of cheating on your partner few days ago; carrying your lover’s photo wherever you go. In his article, he made it clear that some kind of strength of remembrance may help you avoid cheating on your wife by a simple look on her innocent face, maybe the child’s face too. For those who follow me, I shared that article few days ago. Thanks to Henry Mutebe for that. Today, we wanna look at tip number 2; knowing how to do most of the house chores!
Learning how to do most of the home chores like cooking, sweeping, washing, laying bed and organizing house, lighting the charcoal stove and ironing and so many other activities will save you a lot. Most girls will likely steal you from your beautiful woman by exploiting your weaknesses in these areas especially when your wife is away for work or any other business.
For those who read the article ‘the dangers of being too needy’, you understand what I am saying; when you are needy, your vulnerability to risks is increased! However, if you are a man who can make life go on in all other areas of your life (of course except lovemaking) in the absence of your wife, the chances of being stolen by other girls are greatly reduced.
For example, I have learned a lot from my sweetheart. I can cook a good meal of all types; I can wash my clothes; I can iron them; I can sweep and organize my house or room and in that way, no excuses for girls to come into my life pretending to help me with cooking, washing or something else if my Sweetheart is not available. About the first tip, I already told you that she is the wallpaper on my phone and my Computer background. Her photo is always with me. That way, I can try to hold on.
Of course, there are far better and deeper reasons for holding onto your sweetheart’s photo (s) other than just escaping the temptation of cheating, but it will not hurt us to think about this indirect benefit.
As I always note, I am sure there are people there calling all of this nonsense, but it is okay, save your family. My mother taught me a lot of chores and my love has perfected it all. From that angle, I should not meet temptations. You see, there is just a simple and minor moment that can destroy your life forever. A moment that your wife does not matter a lot, a moment your wife may not look very beautiful, those moments when you are having simple quarrels or disagreements.
These are dangerous times when you need such simple tips. I know what I am talking about and I shall share it deeply in tip number four or more. For now, just learn and be eager to always try some house chores yourself and be self-reliant even when your wife is not home.
For those who are not fixed or serious with anyone, this is good for you too. Girls take advantage of such boys who cannot take care of themselves. While this tip is helpful to those in real relationships, singles can use it as well.
For singles, as you know, you actually do not have to be without a woman (that is not my teaching); the problem is that you will end up with a wrong girl. You may end up falling into the hands of a fake woman simply because she was helping you with cooking, sweeping, washing or any other thing. It is common with girls who are usually your friends but of course not your type (your type? Not as you think but I mean it; girls who you shouldn’t fall for). You got the tip. Learn to look after yourself.
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